My alone time is for everyone’s safety shirt

Start a career by myself, work in the government, have a stable job and have part-time jobs, have bought a house. After getting acquainted, me and he went out to eat quite a lot. It was also fun but every time he wanted to hug and kiss, I avoided it. The last session before I left for the North, everyone had a party and had a drink and then left. He kept me to talk and confide. He said I experienced, loved many people, had a different personality than him. But even so, he still loves and wants to marry me. I feel disrespected, before he can say anything, he has transgressed behavior even though I protested.